Quiet Wins: 14 Unexpected Reasons Being an Introvert Rocks!
It’s been said that introverts have the loudest minds while extroverts have the quietest. Introverts have strong minds and ethics but minimalist personalities. The introvert often gets overlooked in favor of those with louder and more aesthetically interesting personality types.
However, this is not always the case. Introverts make for better friends, romantic partners, and workplace employees. There is even scientific research that proves introverts are more successful at being celebrities and CEOs. Here are 14 unexpected reasons why being an introvert rocks!
1. Introverts Are Keenly Observant
How many times have you noticed other people making the same life mistakes over and over? Some people are so self-absorbed that they cannot see how others perceive them or the world for what it is, only how they want it to be. The introvert is very observant and sees the world for what it is. Introverts are usually good at reading nonverbal mannerisms and intuiting the motivations and emotions of others.
2. Introverts Think Before Speaking
Young children and the elderly are forgiven for making cruel comments. Grown adults are held accountable for everything they say. The introvert understands the old phrase, “You will never regret your silence.” The introvert thinks calculatingly and strategically before speaking in crucial situations.
3. Introverts Are Never Impulsive
Extroverts are infamous for not having critical thinking skills or impulse control. While spur-of-the-moment thinking can lead to adventure it also often leads to chaos. Introverts critically assess available data before making decisions to ensure preferable outcomes. Life is generally unfair and chaotic so being an introvert can help you navigate it better.
4. Introverts Are Active Listeners
Have you ever noticed that some people are more likely to ask for advice or confide in you than others in your social circles? The introvert is a master at active listening. Active listeners monitor nonverbal cues and actively relay the speaker’s words to show their engagement. Most people hear others without listening while awaiting their turn to speak. You’re more likely to be truly valued and trusted as a friend or employee because of your active listening skills as an introvert.
5. Introverts Are Trusted Lifelong Friends
Extroverts are notorious for being attention magnets and the life of the party. The introvert is very discerning when it comes to investing social energy. Introverts use wisdom and experience to choose a few friends to be part of their lives. Introverts are valued friends because they are committed, keep secrets, can offer constructive criticism when needed, and bring out the best in others.
6. Introverts Can Deal With Solitude
Some people endure toxic, unhealthy friendships or publicly socialize often because they just can’t bear to be alone. Introverts can bear extended periods of being alone and improving their own personalities. While no one is suggesting that perpetual loneliness is a good thing, only introverts appreciate that sometimes it is better to be alone than be alone with others.
7. Introverts Stay in Relationships Longer
Introverts are rarely emotionally clingy. Introverts who pair with emotionally mature or other introverted people usually stay in long-lasting relationships. Introverts are considerate, never overwhelm their partners, choose words carefully before speaking, and give partners to vent in times of conflict. Some people are naturally attracted to introverts because they keep to themselves with intuitive confidence.
8. Introverts Thrive at Problem Solving
Introverts naturally consider “What if?” scenarios repeatedly before committing to an action. This is what makes introverts naturally gifted at troubleshooting and problem-solving. The introvert usually notices potential problems or issues long before they can manifest. This innate skill serves introverts well in the workplace and when choosing friends or partners.
9. Introverts Abhor Drama and Toxicity
The introvert is a peace-and-quiet magnet that reveres calm and solace in their lives. Some people thrive on drama, toxicity, and mind games as personality and social fuel. The introvert avoids such people and situations zealously. If you are an introvert then nothing matters more than your peace of mind. Conflict and conflict resolution are a part of life, but toxic drama is never necessary. Introverts avoid chaos agents and volatile situations at all costs if their peace is threatened.
10. The Introvert is Hyper-Independent
Introverts are used to being alone, taking care of themselves, and making life contingency plans. The introvert is more likely to be hyper-independent and self-reliable than the extrovert who needs the attention of others for validation. Introverts keep to themselves by nature and are more likely to be more self-reliant than other personality types.
11. Introverts Keep Their Egos in Check
Confidence and ego are two different things. An out-of-control ego can mask low self-esteem while alienating people and ruining your reputation. The introvert never tries to validate their identity to others and never allows their egos to spin wildly out of control.
12. Introverts Are More Creative
Some of the most famous and creative people in the world were shy and creative introverts. Albert Einstein, Mark Zuckerberg, Steven Spielberg, and many other famous people are introverts. Introverts spend a lot of time in their own heads dreaming and planning creative endeavors. If you want to succeed in life, being an introvert could be the first necessary key.
13. An Introvert is Naturally Emphatic
The introvert is naturally self-aware, sensitive, considerate of others, and compassionate. Introverts excel at work because they appreciate the POVs of others and create inclusive environments where everyone helps out. Rejoice if you have empathy, because many Americans do not. America ranks 7th in the world when it comes to the number of empathic citizens. It lags behind South Korea, Peru, and even Saudi Arabia.
14. You’ll More Likely Find Success as an Introvert
Multiple scientific and social studies suggest that introverts are more likely to find success professionally than other personality types. Over 56.4% of American lawyers self-identify as introverts. A 2017 study found that introverts were likely to be more successful as CEOs of large corporations than extroverts.
Being an Introvert Can Be a Useful Life Skill
Don’t let anyone tell you that being an introvert can hold you back in life. Being an introvert can make you more preferable as a friend, life partner, or even as an employee. Some of the most famous and richest people were introverts. If you are an introvert, view it as a life skill and not as a hindrance in life.
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Allen Francis was an academic advisor, librarian, and college adjunct for many years with no money, no financial literacy, and no responsibility when he had money. To him, the phrase “personal finance,” contains the power that anyone has to grow their own wealth. Allen is an advocate of best personal financial practices including focusing on your needs instead of your wants, asking for help when you need it, saving and investing in your own small business.